Men in the Western world face a number of problems when it comes to finding a single woman to date, fall in love with and marry. Things have just gotten extremely complicated.
The worst of these is the #MeToo movement because although it had good intentions it has polluted the dating scene in most Western countries to the point where guys are now afraid to ask a girl out on a date, even if she’s flirting with him.
Sorting out the truth about MeToo# from the urban legends about men ruined by false charges of sexual assault is hard to sort out. Is it true that something as silly as a single date bad date is sometimes enough to destroy a man’s life? Are men no longer “innocent until proven guilty?”
Who knows? And we are not saying that some guys are not morons. There are plenty of men who need to get their own life in order before they even consider looking for a wife or girlfriend – particularly from overseas.
But the point is it is not unreasonable for any American man to worry about false charges of sexual assault and the incredibly complicated standards of behavior men have to sort out.
In Eastern Europe Women Are Different
The vast majority of Eastern European women haven’t bought into the #MeToo ideology and third wave feminism because they know it’s nonsense peddled by entitled women with nothing better to do with their lives.
Part of this is these women know how tough life really was for their parents and grandparents in the last century. Communism was not fun.
Russian brides understand this and so do women across the rest of Eastern Europe. Slavic women are interested in building a successful, emotionally rich life, and this is doubly true in old Poland.
In Poland women value the family unit, they appreciate decent alpha males, and that’s why more and more North American, European and Australasian men are choosing Polish brides to spend the rest of their lives with.
These are women you can build a future with.
Why Polish Women Want to Date You
The first question to answer here is: “Do Polish women want to get out of Poland?”
What you might not realize is that Poland has been part of the European Union (EU) since 2004. Their economy is doing very well, and the country currently attracts a lot of foreign investment.
In fact, in September of 2018 Poland was, “…elevated to the group of developed economies in the Russell Index, run by the Financial Times and Stock Exchange, or FTSE,” according to U.S. NEWS & World Report.
Furthermore, Poland has a high quality of life. Any consumer item available in the rest of Europe is available in Poland and there is also still an Old World elegance to the country.
Nearly, 70% of the population lives in one of the larger cities and Warsaw and Krakow are truly world-class cities.
So, the answer is “No, Polish mail order brides are not fleeing deprivations and oppression.”
That’s like saying that a German girl who marries an American guy was just doing that to escape from Germany – EU citizens aren’t trying to escape from their homeland.
Polish Girls Want Romance
It’s not that Polish guys aren’t romantic, but they’re simply not as romantic as most guys from other countries.
Women here watch a lot of Western TV shows and movies. Most of Polish girls have seen every American romantic comedy, so they expect that their relationships with men should reflect some of what they see onscreen.
For Western guys, this is day-to-day stuff, but conservative Polish men don’t go out of their way to make their girlfriends feel as desirable as they are.
Does this mean that Polish men are narrow-minded? Not exactly, but they ain’t Matthew McConaughey or George Clooney or even John Wayne.
When Polish women compare them to Western guys they appear rigid and too demanding. And this is not Russia. Polish guys are generally OK, but Western men have a reputation for being kinder, funnier, and more likely to actually listen to women.
Yes, despite what your three ex-wives say, American men do actually have a great reputation internationally for listening, kindness, and a sense of humor. It is a
Another aspect of the Polish dating scene is that a worrying number of Polish guys are overly possessive of their girlfriends. Feeling a little bit of jealousy is normal for any guy, but Polish men can be extremely controlling of their girlfriends, demanding to know where they are at all times.
The irony here is that the same guys who exhibit an extreme level of jealousy are usually the same ones cheating on their girlfriends.
Alcohol consumption and drug use in Poland is also an issue for men. So, where Western guys might have a few beers with their buddies, it’s not unusual for Poles of a certain age to hammer back an entire bottle of vodka with their friends.
Polish women also value education quite highly, but their male counterparts don’t share the same enthusiasm for learning and bettering themselves.
This doesn’t mean that all Polish men are uneducated, but the younger ones are more concerned with good clothes, nice cars and partying, than getting an education that will improve their lives.
Educated Polish men usually emigrate to find high-paying jobs elsewhere.
There is also a certain level of prestige to be had when a Polish girl finds herself an American, Canadian, or Australasian boyfriend. She’s separated herself from the herd, so won’t be shy about showing off her new guy.
So, what we’re saying here is that the reason why Polish women want to date you is that you are different in every conceivable way to Polish men.
Why You Should Date & Marry a Polish Woman
Most guides on dating Polish women would start with something like “they’re drop-dead gorgeous.” But what a lot of guides do not say is, “They are just like your grandma.”
Tens of millions of Americans, Canadians, Australians, and British men are descended from Polish immigrants and that deep familial relationship is a draw for a lot of guys.
Polish girls are almost all Catholic and cook the same foods your Polish grandma cooked and that is a decent reason to at least consider a Polish mail order bride.
But even better is that sense of relaxed compassion so common with them. In Poland women still, take a long term view of the value of a man. They know men aren’t perfect.
So, Polish girls are not into playing mind games. They are very accepting of flaws and foibles – the stunning looks and slender figures are just a bonus. In Poland female gym membership is almost above 80% for women under 30 so there are lots of fitness girls.
This is a breath of fresh air for any guy who has had to endure the “Sex and the City” mindset shared by a majority of Western women – they think they’re entitled to whatever pops into their heads.
It’s not that this type of woman doesn’t exist in Poland, but they’re a tiny minority of the female population.
What do Polish women look like?
You’ll be pleased to hear that most of the women here are your stereotypical blue-eyed blondes, with slender bodies, and curves where you’d expect them.
That’s not to say that every Polish girl is blonde, especially because of the Slavic influences you’ll see here.
The girls with dark hair are just as attractive as the blondes though – there’s something about a girl with black hair and green eyes that makes every man with a pulse sit up to attention.
One of the first things that will strike you about the Polish dating scene is that most of the women don’t layer their faces with makeup.
Because they don’t need to.
They have a natural beauty that is the result of centuries of excellent genetics, and you can see it in the faces of most Polish girls.
Does that mean that every Polish girl looks like a supermodel?
No, because that would be impossible. But what we will say is that even the Polish girls who are considered to be a 5/10 locally, are easily an 8/10 by American or Canadian standards.
Something else really attractive about Polish girls, and a key reason why they’re so popular as “mail order brides”, is that they cherish traditional family values. This is a Catholic country, and the women here are proud of that.
They see absolutely nothing wrong with getting married well before their 30s and raising a large family with their husband.
This is the exact opposite of what is happening in most Western countries where women are taught that having a family is career suicide, even though that is anything but the truth.
A conservative Polish girl understands that you don’t have to put career before family as long as you structure things properly i.e. you can have both.
A Polish woman with a high IQ doesn’t mean she’ll look like an extra from The Big Bang Theory – it’s the exact opposite. They know they can be smart and sexy, and they show that off as often as they can.
They Love Drama?
You know all those rows you had with your ex-girlfriends over what takeout to order?
Yeah…Polish girls don’t do that.
They save the drama for the really serious stuff in life, so don’t use it on a day-to-day basis to whine about something that’s actually not that important.
Imagine what it would be like to have a relationship with a woman who respects you and only argues about the important stuff in life? And not just because she feels entitled to take a verbal swing at you when it suits her.
Monogamy is a real thing here. Polish women don’t believe in cheating on their boyfriends even if the relationship is on its last legs. They would much rather do everything they can to save the relationship, but without using infidelity as an excuse to end things.
When your Polish girlfriend is not in work you’ll most likely find her at the gym or out jogging. You never have to coax her to do this – it’s just something Polish girls do naturally because they respect their bodies.
Their healthy lifestyle extends beyond just going to the gym though because they also make sure to get at least eight hours sleep every night and most of them eat as if they’re always in training for something.
So while Western women are pounding down a sugary soda and a bagel for lunch, their Polish counterparts are eating a grilled chicken salad with some fruit juice.
So, when we said earlier that their looks are the result of centuries of good genetics, their lifestyle also has an awful lot to do with their clear complexions, bright eyes and beaming smiles.
Women here also have that weird body shape where they have small waists, but somehow manage to retain their boobs. We’re not sure how they do this, but we’ve seen enough Polish girls with these physical traits to know that it’s not just a fluke.
A long-term Polish girlfriend is also willing to do almost anything for the man in her life. This can include them doing odd things like cleaning your apartment without you even hinting at it.
What she’s doing is showing you she can be a great wife and mother, so don’t be surprised when she cooks you an amazing meal for absolutely no reason.
These are just some of the reasons why so many American and Canadian guys come looking for Polish women to date, romance and eventually get married to.
They’re everything you could want in a woman, but without all the emotional and psychological baggage most Western women carry around with them.
Best Cities to Meet Single Polish Women
Poland is a surprisingly big country (almost as big as Germany), so you’ll need to focus your dating efforts on specific cities, and not try to conquer the whole country at once.
There are lots of interesting places to visit. If you do not know where to start, check out these galleries of some of the best Polish tourist attractions. That will give you some ideas where you might want to visit during your stay.
Since your main goal is romance you need to go into the cities because that is where you can meet pretty coeds and sexy young professional women. In the villages, it is much harder because the girls who stay in the villages tend to marry at 17 or 18.
So, here are our top 5 Polish cities for you to add to your international dating itinerary.
This is a world-class tourist destination. It is growing in popularity right now, because it is, “Cheap, cheerful and edgy,” according to one English travel writer.
So, you can expect to see a lot of other foreign guys here, as well as lots of single women. The moral of the story is that tourist cities = more competition.
At the same time, tourist cities are also just more fun. Yes, you are going there primarily for the women, but it is nice to have a great meal and meet fun people while you are looking for the love of your life.
There are dozens of universities in and around the city, so that means lots of dating opportunities because single students love meeting foreign guys.
This is the capital of Poland, and a great city to start your search for a Polish wife, or wife to be. The city is easy to book a flight to from the United States. A recent search showed one direct flight and seventy-eight other flights out of Chicago, so you should be able to get a good price on a ticket if you search a bit.
Warsaw is a really busy city, so getting women to slow down long enough to ask them out can be difficult. One of the best ways to do that is to see where the foreigners hang out because they can really point you in the right direction and Warsaw has a large American expat community.
The perks of being the capital means it has lots of parks and cultural sites, which are great places to accidentally meet single Polish girls.
Oddly enough this city isn’t pronounced “Rock-law”, but more like “Vrot-swav”, or it is if you speak Polish. Once you get over the pronunciation hurdle what you need to know is that it’s off the main tourist radar, so prices are lower and you have fewer guys to compete with. This makes Wroclaw a “must-see” on any visit to the country.
Here’s a city with a real “Amsterdam” feel to it, while also being one of the most modern cities in Poland. Gdansk has nearby beaches for fresh air and getting to know the locals, and any city with a “Beer Street” is worth visiting. Plus everyone living here seems to love it.
The first thing you need to know is that there’s a huge student population here. The second is that Poznan isn’t a tourist hotspot, so you have less competition and there are far more single women living here than in other bigger cities.
There are lots of restaurants and clubs for you to use for dates, and it’s typical of most Polish cities in that it has lots of old-world charm.
Best Places In Poland To Meet Women
The typical advice you get on “pickup artist” sites is to hit the bars and nightclubs if you want to meet women. This advice works well in Poland because single women here love to go out and have fun. It’s the norm.
The problem with heading straight into bars and nightclubs in search of your future wife is that that’s what every other guy is doing too.
You are literally charging headfirst into competing with every other guy in the room.
What we advise is a more grown-up approach to meeting single Polish women, and what we mean by that is trying to meet them in real life.
Some of the best places to do that include markets, where you get to play the confused tourist. Or you can visit shopping malls and ask for directions, or advice on what the best clothes shops are for guys.
You might even get a quick tour of the mall from a friendly local girl – just by asking a question.
Always look out for the cafés and eateries near universities because these are meeting points for students in the area, and many Poles love to broaden their horizons by talking to foreigners.
We probably don’t need to say this, but don’t go to strip clubs, not even just for idle entertainment. The only thing you stand to gain there is the embarrassment of losing the entire contents of your wallet to a drink or lap dance scam.
As we mentioned earlier on, Poland is a pretty big place, so it makes sense to do your research and due diligence before you arrive in the country. Basically, it makes sense to set up some dates – even if it’s just sharing a coffee – before you arrive.
The easiest way to do that is by signing up for an online dating site like Polish Cupid. The sheer size of the country is only one of the reasons for using dating sites though.
The other one is that you need to get an idea of how different Polish women will react to your sense of humor and your personality, so think of the online dates as a testing ground to see what works and what doesn’t with Polish women.
Tips For Dating A Polish Girl
The first thing to cover here is the type of men Polish women like.
Thankfully this isn’t complicated because what they’re looking for is a gentleman. Now, while that might sound a bit olde worlde, the reality is that it’s about nothing more than being a decent man.
Polish culture is quite traditional though, so women expect their men to be quite manly, and to be reasonably fit.
Most Polish guys spend almost as much time in the gym as their girlfriends do, but they focus more on weightlifting than they do cardiovascular fitness.
What this means for you is that you need to be willing to work out and get fit to meet her expectations. Some Polish girls are willing to overlook a beer gut, but most aren’t. She’s the perfect excuse for you to finally get your ass back in shape.
Something else odd about dating in Poland is that public displays of affection are not all that common.
Sure, she’ll hold your hand while you’re out in public together, but the idea of passionate kissing in public is not really her thing.
Some Western guys get bent out of shape by this, assuming that their girlfriend is embarrassed by them, but it’s just her traditional values coming to the surface.
Don’t worry she’ll make you feel valued in ways that will make the lack of public displays of affection become completely irrelevant.
They dig chivalry, so simple gestures like holding a door open for her, pulling her chair out to seat her at a table, or kissing her hand as a gesture of affection, will earn you some serious brownie points.
It’s worth mentioning that it’s very common for women here to kiss men on both cheeks when they meet them, but don’t mistake this for an attempt at intimacy on their part.
It’s also a good idea to learn some Polish, at least to a conversational level. Most Polish women speak at least one foreign language thanks to the education system here, but that language is not always English, so don’t make any assumptions.
Her native language isn’t all that difficult to learn, and she’ll love you even more for even trying.
Polish women are quite adventurous by nature, they love living life, so if you can show a little bit of spontaneity that will go a long way towards making a really good impression on her.
This doesn’t mean you need to organize hiking trips and rock climbing adventures every other day, but she also won’t want to spend every day with you sitting at a bar or going to the movies.
Barriers to Marrying a Polish Woman
Fortunately, there are no barriers that were aware of to Western guys getting married to Polish women – the mail-order bride scene in Eastern Europe has been alive and well for decades.
The proof of this is the number of Polish women living in North America, the United Kingdom, and elsewhere in the Western world.
Because Poland is part of the EU, it’s part of the Schengen Area, so EU, Canadian, American, Australian, and New Zealand visitors do not require a visa for a visit of fewer than 90 days. Here’s a complete list of countries that do not require a visa to visit Poland.
If you’re planning on getting married in Poland and then taking your bride home with you, then you’ll need to check with the border and immigration control authorities of your country of origin.
This obviously doesn’t apply to EU citizens getting married to a Polish woman.
Women here typically speak more than just Polish (and often German), but it is their native language. The onus is on you to learn at least some Polish if you want to make the most of your international dating adventures.
An unnecessary language barrier is the last thing that you should allow to get between you and the Polish girl of your dreams.
Polish women have no issue with dating foreign guys, so there are no cultural barriers in the way of getting married to your fiancée or getting engaged to your girlfriend. Remember, this is a very westernized country.
Poland is one of the most modern countries in Eastern Europe, with a thriving tourist industry and a large number of expats living in the country.
You can drink the tap water, and crime involving tourists is very, very rare. It’s also one of the only European countries to have suffered zero terrorist attacks.
Watch out for taxi scams at airports, and avoid wandering around unfamiliar parts of any city late at night. Some bars will charge your debit or credit card for huge amounts of money for a few drinks, so you need to watch out for this.
But, generally speaking, Poland is one of the safest countries in the world.
The international dating scene in Poland is as healthy as ever. There are still tens of thousands of single Polish women looking for guys just like you to date and ideally, get married to.
So, why not take the first step towards a brighter future by starting your international dating adventure today?